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		<title>Travel With Purpose &#8211; Make It More Than A Vacation</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Retreats are travel with a purpose. Intentionally embracing the well-being benefits we are blessed with when we explore new destinations, and cultures and partake in novel activities.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>by Kathi Szabo</p>
<p>I love to travel! Who doesn’t? Challenging myself to do new things. Discovering beautiful places to renew my spirit. Savoring new flavors on my palette. Engaging with people different than me and understanding other cultures.</p>
<p>Travel improves our well-being in many ways.</p>
<p>Studies show that travel help reduces the risks of heart disease. Travel can increase your levels of dopamine, which helps to feel deeper levels of satisfaction and pleasure. We boost our creativity when traveling in a foreign country, not only finding ways to communicate when we don’t speak the language but also there are many ways to do activities we do every day and take for granted.</p>
<p>Traveling, whether abroad or to nearby destinations, is something many of us do, but without intention and without embracing all these well-being benefits.  We go on a trip. Explore the sites, usually with our phone in hand, taking picture after picture, posting selfies on social media, and missing half of what is in our site.</p>
<p>We dine at delicious restaurants. Perhaps even order a tasty dish that we’ve never tried before and may never eat again because we have no idea what is in it or how it was prepared.</p>
<p>But have you been on a retreat? Maybe it was a yoga retreat to deepen your practice or focus on a particular flavor of yoga. Or perhaps it was a spiritual retreat, filled with silence and prayer. Or maybe a day retreat, time spent away from the day-to-day to fill your cup!</p>
<p>Retreats are travel with a purpose. Intentionally embracing the well-being benefits we are blessed with when we explore new destinations, and cultures and partake in novel activities.</p>
<h5><strong>The World Is Your Backyard</strong></h5>
<p>How many plant species are in your yard? A hundred? Two hundred? Even if it’s 500, that’s less than 1% of all plant species in the world!</p>
<p>When we travel, we can explore nature. Allow our senses to notice the different sites, sounds, and smells of the landscape.</p>
<p>My favorite area of the worldwide backyard is beneath the ocean. No matter how hard you want to see coral, you can only see it in its living form underwater.  The beauty of the ocean and the life living there is remarkable. Filled with color. Vibrancy. And without much sound, it creates a different kind of peace and serenity.</p>
<p>My levels of well-being drastically increase when I dive or snorkel. Why?</p>
<p>First, when I dive, my breath is my guide. If you’ve ever scuba-dived, you know what I mean. You can’t help but hear your own breath. Your breath is calming.</p>
<p>Secondly, I am not distracted. I am simply observing. Noticing the plant life, the fish, and their interaction.</p>
<p>What does this sound like?</p>
<p>Mindfulness. Almost a form of meditation.</p>
<p>This is exactly why so many retreats are near breathtaking and exotic natural wonders, engaging our parasympathetic nervous system and improving our well-being.</p>
<p>If you can’t get away to an exotic place, explore the land beneath your feet. Take a Day Retreat and go Forest Bathing, which is much more than a mindful walk in the woods.  It’s embodying the forest, exploring it in new ways. Weather not cooperating? Bring the outdoors in. At last week’s Spring Into Health &amp; Happiness Day Retreat, we did just that! We took a Forest Bath indoors, exploring the forest floor by bringing wood, rocks, moss, and more inside and experiencing it in a more mindful, embodied way.</p>
<h5><strong>Treat Your Body Well</strong></h5>
<p>Don&#8217;t our bodies deserve a change from day to day too?</p>
<p>Our tastebuds yearn for some new flavors. Our muscles want to move in different ways.</p>
<p>Many retreats incorporate exploring our Body Home in new ways. A yoga retreat provides daily Yoga practices that many don’t experience in their daily lives. These new daily retreat rituals, awaken our desires to perhaps practice more often when we get home.</p>
<p>Retreats intentionally provide physical activity to not strain the body, but to ignite it!</p>
<p>Eating differently when on a retreat, treats our body to nutrients and flavors we tend to overlook when eating on the run.</p>
<p>Years ago, on a Tony Robbins Retreat, I was introduced to wheatgrass and eating a plant-based diet. At first, I felt disappointed, like I was missing out by not eating meat or trying local cuisine. But the goal of this retreat was to master our life, including the health of our bodies. By being intentional, and allowing myself to observe the experience, I noticed that although I still enjoy meat, my body feels better when I eat less meat and more veggies and other plant-based foods like mushrooms. I was on retreat to master my health, and that week had a profound effect on how I view food.</p>
<p>I now see food as both fuel for my body and as enjoyment for my tastebuds. And many dishes satisfy both.  This leads me to…..</p>
<h5><strong>Discover Your Self in Other Cultures</strong></h5>
<p>Retreats not only expose us to other cultures they immerse us in those cultures. To provide us the opportunity to notice similarities and accept our differences, without judgment.</p>
<p>Years ago, Mark and I reunited with our daughter Hana, who was living in Colombia at the time, in Guatemala. We had ever been and were excited to see volcanos and stay on Lake Atitlán, a lake formed by a volcanic eruption 84,000 years ago. This vacation became a retreat of sorts, where we immersed ourselves in the Mayan culture.</p>
<p>Prime example, we took a cooking class. But this cooking class was not a fancy restaurant, let alone any restaurant. It was facilitated at a local Mayan woman’s home. We met her in town at the food market where we shopped with her. Allowing her to explain the intricacies of local vegetables and food.</p>
<p>The cooking class was held at her modest home. We climbed the stairs to the roof where there was an outdoor kitchen. We made a special Guatemalan dish together and sat at the table on the roof exploring the food we had just prepared.</p>
<p>As I look back, I still feel a sense of delight and a better understanding of the people of the area. I noticed how this woman was simply striving to make a better life for herself and her children, just like single moms do here in the US. I noticed that back home in the US, one would have to jump through permitting to allow such a business in their home.</p>
<p>But most importantly, I gained a better understanding of my Self. Gratitude for being able to be there with my daughter. And igniting a desire to leave the world better than I found it. This was travel with a purpose.</p>
<h5><strong>Reflection and Self-Care</strong></h5>
<p>I define a retreat as “intentionally withdrawing from everyday activities to a safe space in order to reflect on one’s Self and connect to one’s surroundings.”</p>
<p>Although I’ve mentioned some exotic places, some of the best retreats are local and can be as short as a day. They simply need to be intentional and bring us inward.</p>
<p>Retreats don’t have to be centered on Yoga. Journaling, mindfully walking, or even planting flowers and veggies can allow us to reflect on our lives and connect with the world around us.</p>
<p>Our Day Retreats are designed to connect you back to yourself, withdrawing from the everyday.</p>
<p>One of our guests from last week’s Day Retreat posted on Facebook, “It exceeded all of my expectations.  Mark and Kathi have created the ultimate oasis.  They bring so much experience and knowledge to this little corner of South West Michigan.  I left feeling refreshed, energized, and full of new ideas.”</p>
<h6><strong>And they can be personal, just for you or a small group of loved ones.</strong></h6>
<p>Starting this summer, Eclectic Well-Being will not only continue to offer our amazing destination retreats like our upcoming journey to Amorgos Greece, and our intimate Southwest Michigan Day Retreats like last week’s Spring Into Health &amp; Happiness, but we will be offering personal retreats, where we intentionally plan activities that help you to reflect and connect with your Self. Time for true Self-Care.</p>
<p>Curious about what that could look like?</p>
<p>Maybe you want to explore meditation and learn how to cook healthy meals for your family.  A weekend retreat with us could include a few cooking classes with Mark, a meditation workshop with me, including experimenting with Yoga Nidra and Forest Bathing, and of course a day trip to Silver Beach in nearby St Joe.</p>
<p>Or maybe you’re contemplating a change in your life, a new job, or a relationship.  A weekend immersion in my coaching program, the Total MindShift, can help you explore the future while you relax and unwind on the farm.</p>
<p>Or maybe you want to jumpstart getting healthy! We can help you find physical activities you enjoy while Mark leads you through his Total HealthShift. Try hiking nearby dunes. Of do some gardening for exercise.</p>
<p>We plan this retreat experience with you, ensuring it’s consciously curated to help you create a life and body you love!</p>
<p>Sound interesting? Send me an email and let’s see what we can create for you! Kathi@eclecticwellbeing.com</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>When we start talking about mindset and personal development, many think of it as trying to be happy all the time. I soon learned that’s not the case at all. </p>
<p>Although we can train our brains to have more positive emotions, find gratitude and look at the glass half full rather than half empty, a true growth mindset sees the darkness and then learns from it.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>by Kathi Szabo</p>
<p>How often do you think about your mindset?</p>
<p>You may stop and take notice if you have a positive outlook or a negative outlook.</p>
<p>But is that mindset?</p>
<p>There’s a theory that there are two types of mindsets: growth and fixed.</p>
<p>A growth mindset is what many coaches and psychologists preach, to allow your mindset to develop and change with each experience.</p>
<p>The second is a belief that your strengths and beliefs are fixed and there is no way to change the way your brain processes information.</p>
<p>I can’t imagine anyone having a fixed mindset for their entire life. Maybe less growth and more stubbornness, but even the most stubborn people I know, can be influenced and change their minds. Look at jury trials. A juror comes in believing one thing and with the influence and arguments of his fellow jurors, changes those beliefs until a consensus is reached.</p>
<p>But I digress. Let’s get back to the question, what is mindset?</p>
<p>Merriam-Webster defines it as a mental attitude or inclination.</p>
<p>Dictionary.com states it as a fixed attitude, disposition, or mood.</p>
<p>The Collins English Dictionary refers to mindset as general attitudes and the way one typically thinks about things.</p>
<p>These all sound like they are describing the fixed mindset, don’t they?</p>
<p>So, if there is a difference between a fixed, stagnant mindset, and a growth mindset, one that is changing all the time, what is just mindset?</p>
<p>In my 5+ years now of studying mindset, learning from a variety of mindset leaders, I’ve come to my own way of defining mindset.</p>
<p>It’s how we process information and make decisions that influence our beliefs and actions.</p>
<h4><strong>How the Mind Works</strong></h4>
<p>Have you ever thought of your mind as if it were a computer? A computer receives data and through numerous if-then statements, it comes up with a way to process that information so that it is useful.  It becomes fact, like our beliefs. Depending on the program, the computer may perform an action with that data.  The way a computer worked prior to AI, was pretty fixed.  A programmer set the code and that was how the computer functioned. But with todays AI technology, computers learn. They alter their programming based on more information and analyzing prior results.</p>
<p>If we relate this to mindset, well a fixed mindset would be yesterday’s computers.  Data in, processed in the same way, getting the same results.</p>
<p>So how does the mind process information? In very simple terms, as data enters through our senses, it is received and relayed through a series of networks made of neurons, prompting you to store that information, act on it, or have emotions around it. A <a href="https://youtu.be/tPqI6ZgJgjY">simple 1-minute explanation</a> compares this network to R2D2 from Brainfacts.org.</p>
<p>Back to mindset. One could say that a fixed mindset processes the stimuli received from our senses exactly the same way every time.  A growth mindset learns from experiences and trials and allows the network of brain neurons to constantly change.</p>
<p>Everyone, in my opinion, has a growth mindset. And we all go through stages of growth at different times.</p>
<h4><strong>Growth at Any Age</strong></h4>
<p>My latest growth spurt began in 2014, at the age of 50, when I started taking yoga classes. At the time I was a successful fashion executive, working in NYC and from what everyone could see from the outside, living a fabulous life!</p>
<p>But that was far from the truth.</p>
<p>I was living in what I call now, a scarcity mindset. Although I was earning a better-than-average living, I lived life through the eyes of it not lasting. As if at any moment it could all be taken away. I held on to money so tight that it would slip through my hands, and I had no idea how not to stop it.</p>
<p>Yoga did not change this thought process, my mindset. What yoga did, was help me relax, to engage the parasympathetic nervous system.</p>
<p>I’ve since learned that the more we can engage in rest and digest, the more aware we are of our conscious and subconscious thoughts. And when we are more aware of our thoughts, observing them instead of being them, we can then start to change the way we think. Change our mindset. Yoga helped me to relax so I could observe my own thoughts. Mindset was changing the way I processed those thoughts.</p>
<p>Two years later, Mark and I bought the Yoga studio we had been attending. This growth spurt of becoming more of who I really wanted to be was in full swing. I was observing, but I still had that scarcity mindset. That at any moment, the bottom would fall out.</p>
<h5><strong>Acknowleging My Current Mindset</strong></h5>
<p>Then in 2016, I went on a Yoga retreat with <a href="https://www.yogabohemianj.com/">Yoga Bohemia</a> (if you are ever on LBI in NJ, check out one of their 3 locations, or better yet, go on a Yoga retreat with the owner! It is truly life-changing.) and I found myself rushing to lunch and dinner, fearful there wouldn’t be enough, and I’d be hungry.</p>
<p>If you’ve never been on a Yoga retreat or any retreat for that matter, you form bonds with the other attendees, different than a Yoga class. On a retreat, you immerse yourself with these people and you start sharing your darkest secrets.</p>
<p>I found myself at one meal sharing my fear of the food running out. Instead of laughing, they helped me dig deeper, to discover it wasn’t just food, but it was everything about life! I feared being poor. I feared being alone. Even what people thought of me. And it all came from scarcity. That there wasn’t enough in the world for everyone and what if I lost everything I had?</p>
<p>After that retreat, I began noticing how this scarcity mindset was keeping me locked in a career I never loved. Locked in volunteering for organizations I no longer connected with.</p>
<p>I finally changed my mindset, the way I processed information, and made a decision to stop living in scarcity. Less than a year later, I manifested my way out of corporate life and decided to become the person I truly wanted to be.</p>
<h5><strong>That’s when the darkness set in.</strong></h5>
<p>When we start talking about mindset and personal development, many think of it as trying to be happy all the time. I soon learned that’s not the case at all.</p>
<p>Although we can train our brains to have more positive emotions, find gratitude and look at the glass half full rather than half empty, a true growth mindset sees the darkness and then learns from it.</p>
<p>As I immersed myself in helping run our Yoga studio and switched my volunteer activities from sorority to becoming the founder of a non-profit to help bring yoga to underserved populations, I found myself actually more confused and many times disheartened.</p>
<h4><strong>Changing Your Mindset is Not Without Pain</strong></h4>
<p>The Yoga industry, from the outside, looks filled with love and light. It’s not.</p>
<p>For many, it’s a business.</p>
<p>Sell more packages. Sell more shirts. More workshops. One of my first yoga teachers has been posting about this recently on Instagram and asking the question, are you a Yoga customer, which would make Yoga a commodity, or a Yoga student? Interesting perspective.</p>
<p>When I look back, the confusion I felt stemmed from an inner conflict between my desire to simply help others and my desire to make money.</p>
<p>And as an operator, not the owner of a brand this conflict was even more painful. The brand was focused on expansion and sales, and on the customer, not the student.</p>
<p>Our desire to help our students always won out for Mark and me. We made many decisions during that time that weren’t the best for our bottom line, but they were best for our students.</p>
<p>After five years of being Yoga studio owners, we were forced to close our doors. We still wanted to help people in other ways, but we had over $125,000 in personal debt from the studio, having signed personal guarantees, and had to abide by our non-compete agreement. We decide to expand our coaching business and help people in their health and happiness. Who could have foreseen this would be considered a competing business?</p>
<p>A year and a half later, and 6 months after our non-compete ended, the wolves came knocking. The lesson is not over. We are still learning,  and at a very high cost, financially and emotionally. There must be light beyond the darkness.</p>
<p>And I wouldn’t change a thing.</p>
<h4><strong>Growth Can Be Hard</strong></h4>
<p>It is not always pleasant.</p>
<p>Growth can have you questioning and doubting your beliefs.</p>
<p>What I’ve learned from this experience is that it is in these times, when we question our own decisions, we question our beliefs, and our purpose, that we actually truly change our mindset. We change the way we think and process information. We grow and we learn.</p>
<p>If I had still been in my scarcity mindset, I would have done anything to reduce my financial risk. I would have continued operating a business that I was not aligned with.</p>
<p>But with a change in the way my brain processes information, I no longer fear financial loss. I know I will survive anything the universe throws at me and that there are many ways I can make a living.</p>
<p>The decisions I make now align with my values, yet they aren’t made wearing rose-colored glasses.</p>
<p>A growth mindset doesn’t ignore the negativity that disrupts our lives, but it also does not dwell in it.</p>
<p>It acknowledges the pain and learns from it.</p>
<p>A growth mindset decides that the future holds opportunity, even if it is currently shadowed by the current darkness.</p>
<p>A growth mindset takes responsibility that our choices brought us where we are today. The good and the bad. And it is our choices and our actions today that will move us to a better tomorrow.</p>
<h4><strong>Pause</strong></h4>
<p>The next time you find yourself struggling in your current circumstances, pause for a moment and notice your mindset.</p>
<p>Not your emotions. Not whether you are feeling positive or negative.</p>
<p>Instead, notice the thought patterns happening. Are they in a repetitive pattern? That’s your fixed mindset.</p>
<p>Can you explore other possibilities? Change the pattern of your neuro connectors.</p>
<p>What can you learn? What changes can you make?</p>
<p>At the end of the day, we control our lives, we control our thoughts. We control our mindset.</p>
<p>And even though we can change our mindset, sometimes we must walk through the darkness before finding love and light.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Getting Clarity Again, and Again, and Again.</p>
<p>by Kathi Szabo</p>
<p>I truly believe that without a clear vision of what you really want in life, you will never be satisfied.</p>
<p>But, I also believe that our desires, our vision of what we want our lives to be, is always changing, rarely staying the same.</p>
<p>First, when we achieve our desires, our mind notices other things that are in line with our first desire. For example, say our dream is to travel to Machu Pichu. Once we achieve that, we notice so many other wonders in the world we want to see. Or maybe once we visit Machu Pichu, we’re satisfied and we want to settle down and buy a house.</p>
<p>Then there are times we get closer to our dreams and desires, and something about it doesn’t feel right. We notice something different and become more intrigued. We decide to make adjustments to our dream based on what we know now.</p>
<p>That’s life. Life is always changing. We are always changing. Others are always changing. Things happen that we have no control over yet it impacts us. We can choose how it impacts us, but it still impacts us.</p>
<p>When Mark and I started Eclectic Well-Being, we had one clear vision, to help people live better lives. It was pretty simple. We knew that included the internal self, thoughts, emotions, basically your mindset. We also knew it include the body. Not that we want everyone to have Instagram Yogi bodies, but we want to help others live a healthy life, so they can live longer and enjoy more of their life. And we knew helping people live better lives included connection. Connection to community and connection to nature.</p>
<h5><strong>The Changing Vision of Eclectic Well-Being</strong></h5>
<p>Last year we worked hard to create a platform similar to what we created at our yoga studio, offer classes and workshops, a membership site, and membership perks. That was actually deviation from our original  vision of wanting to partner with other businesses, sending clients to the best yoga studio, recommending small gyms, referring our clients to other wellness modalities based on their needs. But somehow, we overlooked our actual desire. The familiarity of running a membership-based business was still ingrained in our minds.</p>
<p>By the end of the year, we knew we needed to change. We weren’t serving our clients by having a little of this and a little of that.  Community and Connection though was still important to us.  How could we focus on one to one coaching but still create community and connection?</p>
<p>We shifted our vision again and decided to continue to include monthly connection events, but also include connecting more with our community of other wellness providers. Our original business idea was centered around working and supporting others who could serve our clients in ways we couldn’t. After all, we aren’t experts in everything, and we envisioned a community of wellness providers working with us. We overlooked this clarity because it was such a change from how we’d been operating the past few years. We were comfortable in operating a yoga studio and we tried like heck to stay in that comfort zone even though that was not our desire.</p>
<p>Overlooking our real vision because we are comfortable with what we know, happens to many of us. Comfort, or certainty as Tony Robbins would call it, is a need we all have. And sometimes moving out of our comfort zone, even when it’s a desire of ours, can be challenging.</p>
<h5><strong>Dreams Change</strong></h5>
<p>Now 4 months into 2022 and my lenses, my clarity, need readjusting again.</p>
<p>Retreats were more of a side note in our business model. It was always in the back of my mind, but it was not my focus. However, since planning and executing our DREAM Retreat to St Croix, and selling out our Women’s Only Self Care Day Retreat next month – Retreats are now my passion. It’s what I dream about! It’s what I truly love doing!  I love the planning. I love the traveling. I love meeting new people. I love the challenge of being in new surroundings, even when they aren’t quite what you expected.  And I believe Retreats are life-changing!  They are magical and I want everyone to experience them.  That&#8217;s why today I just confirmed our second DREAM Retreat but this time to <a href="https://vimeo.com/221886062?ref=fb-share&amp;fbclid=IwAR3V6tohBdEhqdBJNUA99FzEYvGu84QnkjN_WV-SbH6us7Uief2jhEEkwDA">Amorgos, Greece! </a>Yoga, Mindfulness, Meditation, Mindset, Self Discovery and Exploring the Greek Island Culture.</p>
<h5><strong>Time for New Lenses!</strong></h5>
<p>We experience life and we see things differently. Having clarity is great, but we must notice when the vision becomes fuzzy and blurry. When it does, it’s time to reassess and go back to the drawing board!</p>
<p>So how do we know when it’s time to change our Dreams?</p>
<p>It’s when you no longer are excited by the dream.</p>
<p>It’s when working for the dream is a daunting task.</p>
<p>When it’s no longer fun.</p>
<p>When it no longer brings you joy.</p>
<p>But what if your current dream no longer brings you joy, but you don’t know what will?</p>
<p>You feel stuck.</p>
<p>You may be living the dream you thought you wanted, but something is still lacking.</p>
<p>That’s what the Total MindShift is all about.</p>
<p>It’s taking the time to shift our thought patterns so we can begin to dream again. To let the world be our playground. To listen, truly listen to our heart’s desires.</p>
<p>I practice what I teach. Whenever I feel frustrated, or I feel myself avoiding things, I stop and go inward.</p>
<p>I dig into my psyche. Observing my thoughts and taking note of the observation.</p>
<p>How am I feeling? Are there limiting beliefs stopping me from pursuing my dreams? Do I just need some time to myself?</p>
<p>Mindfulness and Self Care are key.</p>
<h5><strong>Finding New Clarity &#8211; AGAIN&#8230;</strong></h5>
<p>So if you are feeling you need to get clarity again. That perhaps your dreams have shifted. Here’s what I recommend.</p>
<ol>
<li>If you don’t journal start, or at least have a practice as you work through getting your clarity. I love the exercise from “An Artist’s Way” by Julia Cameron of morning pages. Write 3 pages I believe even if it’s the same thing over and over. Just write and get it out.</li>
<li>Sit and breathe. This is great advice for whenever anxiety or frustration creeps up. Focused awareness meditation of simply noticing your breath. This simple technique calms the nervous system and will help move you into a powerful state, or the parasympathetic nervous system.</li>
<li>Find Gratitude for what you currently have. This is key. Even if we’ve recently experienced loss or tragedy, we can find gratitude for other things in our lives. Without gratitude, we cling to frustration and anger for what we don’t have. This will never propel us to living our dreams.</li>
<li>Clarify your values. There are numerous exercises out there to do this. One I like is from the book <a href="https://ivanmisner.com/whos-in-your-room-2/">“Who’s in Your Room” by Emery, Misner, and Sapio.</a></li>
<li>Hire a Coach. Coaches are trained to not solve the issue for you, not to layout your dream based on any survey or quiz. No, coaches are here to support and help you find the answers in yourself. Because it is already inside you, you just need to bring it to the surface.</li>
<li>Live. Love. Laugh. Life is whatever you create, and you can only create when you are embracing the current moment.</li>
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<h5><strong>Living in Motion</strong></h5>
<p>What I’ve learned over the past 7 years, is that my dreams and desires are always in motion. That my values guide me. And that the universe is always working for my greatest good! That last belief is faith. Faith that our dreams are worth pursuing. Faith that we are here for a reason. Faith that love always wins. Faith in ourselves and those around us.</p>
<p>If you’d like to explore working together and creating a Total MindShift so you can consciously create a life you love, <a href="https://www.eclecticwellbeing.com/TMS2022">schedule a no-pressure call with me</a>, and let’s see where the road goes.</p>
<p>And if you want to experience a mini DREAM Retreat this summer, join us for a <a href="https://www.eclecticwellbeing.com/Poconos2022">weekend in the Poconos</a>. Experience Yoga Nidra, a mindfulness walk, morning meditation, river rafting and connection to community and to nature. Check it out! Limited spaces!</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>by Kathi Szabo Greetings from St Croix! We are on our first Destination Retreat as Eclectic Well-Being so what better topic for Eclectic Thoughts than Retreats! I love traveling. But traveling is not the same as going on Retreat! Retreats are different. They are magical. Life-changing. They are Travel, but with a Purpose! Retreats are [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>by Kathi Szabo</p>
<p>Greetings from St Croix! We are on our first Destination Retreat as Eclectic Well-Being so what better topic for Eclectic Thoughts than Retreats!</p>
<p>I love traveling. But traveling is not the same as going on Retreat! Retreats are different. They are magical. Life-changing. They are Travel, but with a Purpose!</p>
<p>Retreats are much more than vacations. Although they include sightseeing, it’s not the only focus.</p>
<p>Many retreats include Yoga, but a retreat does not have to be centered around it.</p>
<p>I define a retreat as “intentionally withdrawing from everyday activities to a safe space in order to reflect on one’s Self and connect to one’s surroundings.”</p>
<p>Notice the capital Self. This is about our higher Being, the Self that is more than our thoughts and body. And I’ve added connecting to one’s surroundings because I cannot imagine a retreat where I didn’t explore the natural beauty of the world around me, including the local culture and food.</p>
<p>Retreats are something I have been doing my entire life and something I want to share with others! It’s why retreats are an integral part of Eclectic Well-Being.</p>
<p>Here’s a bit of history about my life and retreats.</p>
<h5><strong>Summer Camp</strong></h5>
<p>Summer camp as a child was a time for me to journal, try new things, and discover myself. <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/37115157433/">Camp Tocanja </a> was my first sleep-away camp. It was a Girl Scout camp in Michigan about 3 hours away from home. That may be when my love for Michigan started.</p>
<p>The first year was a generic experience. We slept in raised tents and explored all the camp had to offer including hiking, swimming, boating, arts and I’m sure more</p>
<p>In my second year I landed up doing a primitive camping experience. We pitched our own tents, made food over a fire, and even made our own toilet. Of course, many of us waited until we went to the dining hall or for showers, but if you had to go, you had to go!</p>
<p>In the third year, I chose sailing. I loved the water, still do! When I look at photos of the lake now, man it was a small lake! But at the time, it felt huge! And I loved exploring it with my little Sunfish!</p>
<p>In middle school I went to leadership after being elected to student council. I learned so much about myself at this camp. We not only did the normal outdoor camp things, but we experimented with leadership. Learning to take charge of ourselves and lead our schools.</p>
<p>Why do I recall these summercamps as Retreats? Well, I withdrew from family and friends. They were both safe spaces. I  journaled, questioned my beliefs, expanded my thoughts, and explored life in ways I could never have done at home.</p>
<h5><strong>Vacations</strong></h5>
<p>As an adult, I prided myself on taking vacations. But not all vacations are retreats. Some vacations are active, like my honeymoon in 2002. We went scuba diving every day. Toured the island of St Croix. We tasted new food. But I didn’t withdraw and discover more about myself. I had tons of fun, but it was more an active vacation filled with doing, not being.</p>
<p>But then there are the vacations when we are exploring our likes and dislikes. We spend time with our thoughts. We may still be busy doing, but we also slow down and “chill.” We may read or journal. Maybe immerse ourselves in local culture and food.</p>
<p>Our trip in 2015 to Guatemala was a retreat. We stayed at <a href="https://www.visitcentroamerica.com/en/visitar/lake-atitlan-and-sorrounding-towns/">Lake Atitlan</a>, surrounded by Mayan Culture and far removed from civilization. We immersed ourselves in the culture, made local food and discovered their history. This was a retreat. I came home feeling more in touch with my true Self. I found deeper meaning in life.</p>
<p>Another example was a trip to St Anne Canada, near Quebec. Mark and I were having some marital issues and we used this trip to reconnect with each other. To let go of our daily responsibilities and explore our surroundings while also exploring our relationship. It was our own couple’s retreat. We came home feeling a renewed sense of commitment.</p>
<h5><strong>Yoga and Personal Development Retreats</strong></h5>
<p>The best part of owning a yoga studio was the opportunity to go on and host yoga retreats! Our good friend Katie, owner of <a href="https://www.yogabohemianj.com/">Yoga Bohemia</a> was my mentor when it came to hosting a retreat! If you know Katie, you know she is an expert on Retreats! She knows exactly how to create a safe space. How to encourage one to let go and explore not just their Yoga practice, but their surroundings. I recall my first retreat with Katie. It was just down the shore on LBI here in NJ, only an hour from home. But I felt I was away from everything.  This retreat was the start of my mindset journey.</p>
<p>Then there were Tony Robbins’ Retreats! We went to Florida and experienced Date with Destiny. And then to Amsterdam for Life and Wealth Mastery. At each event, I discovered more and more about myself. About who I am now and who I want to become.</p>
<h5><strong>Well-Being Retreats &#8211; Vacation with a Purpose</strong></h5>
<p>Over the last 18 months or so, Mark and I have better defined Eclectic Well-Being. It is more than health and mindset. It is truly about helping others live their best lives. Helping them consciously create a life and body they love.</p>
<p>Retreats are a part of that mission because retreats offer support and guidance in creating you. By providing a safe space to explore your Self. To define the life you want. The things  you want to do in the body you desire!</p>
<p>This week we are on our first Destination Well-Being Retreat. Our DREAM retreat to St Croix. This retreat is focused on helping our guests use proven mindset tools to make their dreams into reality. I’ve spent almost a year manifesting this retreat and  I’m looking forward to withdrawing from my daily activities, creating a safe space and seeing each of our guests explore there wishes and connect with the beauty of the island.</p>
<p>In August, we are planning a <a href="https://www.eclecticwellbeing.com/Poconos2022">mini-retreat to the Poconos.</a> Connecting with the mountains and rafting on the river. More than activity, we will take time to reflect and enjoy the healing aspects of our natural surroundings.</p>
<p>And in 2023, Greece is on the horizon.  May 29 through June 5 we will be in Amorogos Greece, with a few days before or after to spend in Athens. This retreat will focus on Yoga and Mindfulness, creating capacity in our lives to live more fully, while we also immerse ourselves in the culture of the Greek Islands. Official registration and announcement coming in our May Newsletter!</p>
<h5><strong>Why are we planning these retreats?</strong></h5>
<p>Because we believe retreats are life-changing! When we leave our responsibilities at home and we live each day utilizing our zest and connection, we create opportunities to become more of who we are meant to be.</p>
<p>“Travel, at its best, transforms us in ways that aren’t always apparent until we’re back home.” – Eric Weiner</p>
<p>If you want to discover a vacation with a purpose. To explore your desires and reconnect with your soul. Be sure to <a href="https://www.eclecticwellbeing.com/community">be part of our community</a> and not miss any information!</p>
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